How to inspire the positive energy that completes you to live an enriching life.
Complete Your Relationship With Money
What I am about to share is the Medicine, the Key to the Unlocking Your Fears Around Your Relationship With Money. But first, I have a small fun story.
A year ago I was stressed, and coming from a scarcity mind set around money. Like a hamster wheel, my mind kept repeating the same questions,
Will I have enough to pay bills?
Where will I have the funds for this trip I’m desperate to venture on?
How can I take work off, and wont be broke?
I thought I’d never have enough, and that scarcity mindset put a strain on my relationships with partners, friends, and family. I recognized that my love relationships were suffering.
So what did I do? I did something different, I began to use my creativity and do take action in a unique way. I gave money an identity; a personality, an ego, a heart, and a brain. I made money into a person. Just for experiment for one week. I wanted to get to know money differently. More intimately. Close up.
I named my money, Mula Mama. She had attitude, she ran a tight ship. She was green, with gold hair, silver eyes, and bronze lips. She liked to stay a thick stack, not too fat, not too skinny. She was very clear of what she had to say about my:
clothes I wore
mortgage, and most importantly the
time I had with loved ones.
The experiment ended and the results were hard to swallow. Here’s what I learned:
Mula Mama ‘s persona was actually a reflection of my emotions; fears, shame, and anger. Because I made her a person, I was able to see her as someone in society, in my home, and in my bed.
I owned my power and had a Money Talk with my loved ones to release myself from the shackles of “not enough”.
Remember that Medicine I mentioned, HERE IT IS!
I had what is called a Completion Conversation. Where you address a specific issue you have with someone over a specific situation that’s bothered you for a long time and you take responsibility for your perception of how you felt, reacted, and lived with the memory of the incident(s).
Fist important thing you do is receive consent to talk about something that is bothering you, is hard for you, and how important they are to you.
This is creating a strong relationship between you and your loved one by allowing them to listen, and observe that you are healing a part of you that is ready to move to the next level in your life.
The gift is taking the responsibility off of the other, and taking ownership of how you designed your Maya; illusion. When you take ownership, it opens the space of listening between the two of you, builds a stronger bond, and releases you from blocks.
Money is not a compass, but if you pay close enough attention, it will guide you to your emotions, your memories, and this is a gift to take on the money talk, and Complete with the a loved one.
The truth is, it is our birthright to possess Abundance. Set yourself free with Completion.